Many people ask me how long it takes to grow a respectable handlebar moustache. When I say, "about three months," I can often see disappointment in their eye. While that may seem like a commitment, there's no need to be discouraged. Just because your handlebar moustache is not fully mature early on, doesn't mean it looks bad right up until day 90. In fact, it can look pretty decent all the way through the growing process.
During the growing period you may end up using a little extra wax to keep untrained hairs out of your mouth. It may surprise you that lip hair has a pattern, but just like the hairs on your beard or your head, moustache hair has a preferred growth pattern. The suggested three month growing period does two things: First, it allows the inner hair to catch up to the outer hairs. Second, this time period allows you to train the hair to go the direction you want it to grow.
These are all optional but may make you feel more comfortable joining the ranks of the handlebarred. Use what you like and ignore the rest.
Grow out a normal goatee or a full beard. This allows you to begin to get some length in the moustache area without standing out too much. Prior to week two you likely won't have enough hair to even begin waxing the ends. That said, a little moustache wax is handy even if you don't plan to grow a handlebar. It can keep your moustache hairs in place, out of your mouth and provide you with a clean groomed look.
Now you are probably starting to feel whiskers you are used to trimming sneaking into your mouth or tickling your lips. Please resist the temptation to trim these hairs. You will need these later. During this period of growth you will want to keep your wax in your pocket to keep it warm so you can get a dab and train these pesky hairs out of the way. Sweep them to the right and the left, forming the halves of your future handlebars.
By now you should have sufficient hair on your upper lip to make the call to have only the handlebar moustache or to keep your beard or goatee intact. There is no right or wrong approach here. Some purists insist a handlebar should ride alone on your face, others are more lenient as to what constitutes a "real" handlebar moustache. I say do what you'd like and don't listen to the naysayers.
Don't feel compelled to wash out all of the wax every day. When you shower, obviously you should clean up and keep everything hygienic, but you may notice your wax holding up even in the heat and moisture of the shower, and may get an extra day or so out of an application/styling. If you want to de-wax completely, I recommend using one of our beard oils to help loosen the wax pre-shower and as a post-shower follow-up. This will have the added benefit of conditioning your hair in-between styling. Our beard Dry Oil beard balm also makes for a great conditioner on days when you want to wear a loose natural look.
Like the tricks, above, these are guidelines I am offering you, not rules. Experiment and let me know if you find a better way!
I advise against trimming, but if you must at least give it two to three weeks before trimming any hairs. If a single hair is driving you nuts--guillotine it, but if you can bear it, let them all grow until you get a good idea of which hairs will play along and which ones need to go. I strongly advise against cutting the hairs directly above the lip (which you may be used to cutting if you've been keeping a close-cropped moustache) because then you end up with a handlebar mullet! You want those hairs to grow out and meet the outer hairs in order to get that full and natural look. After a couple of weeks you will start to notice that some hairs just don't belong. I have a few that grow North of the main part of my moustache that just never blend in well, so I trim them with small sharp scissors. I also trim a few hairs right beneath my nose for the same reason.
If you are using wax, you will want a dedicated comb so that you don't get wax in other areas you may brush or comb. You will find this accumulates wax, so run it under hot water and use some good dish soap (I like Dawn) and an old tooth brush to clean up the residue here and there.
Hairs will fall out and though it can feel like a setback when you have been spending so much time and energy to get long curled hairs, know that it is normal. Occasional hair loss is a part of growing any beard or moustache, and though it becomes more noticeable as the hairs achieve greater length, it's nothing to be overly concerned about. You've always got fresh growth coming in, be sure to continue to nurture it following the steps above and you'll be well on your way to an outstanding handlebar moustache.
Tim says...
Hi Jan,
Tim here. Thank you for checking out the blog and for your questions about the Hungarian style. You are going to want the hair over the upper lip to have more length than you might anticipate. I’d recommend not trimming and letting it grow for quite a bit. This will help make sure the moustache is thick and that you have the overall length and fullness you want for the Hungarian style. It is always easier to grow out and trim a little later on than it is to have to grow it out again.
For curling, I would use your thumb and index finger then very, very gently curl towards your lip (so curl inside). I hope that makes sense. Please let me know if you have any other questions and I’ll be happy to help.
Take care,
Tim
On March 25, 2021
Jan says...
Hello,
this is Jan from Germany. I read the thoughts about the Hungarian style. My question is: How long should be the hair over the upper lip? And what’s the best way for curling the hair in the sides (inside or outside)?
Thanky in advance for your help.
Best wishes
Jan
On March 25, 2021
Tim says...
Hi Ken,
Tim here. Thanks for stopping by the blog and for your question concerning the Hungarian style. Happy to help! If you have been growing the moustache out already than most of your hard work is already done. The nice thing about the Hungarian style not rolling upon itself, is you will have less time to style.
My advice would be to train the whiskers with wax and a comb. When you are using the wax, make sure you warm it up properly before applying. Also make sure your moustache is clean and dry. Once the wax is warm and pliable, apply to your moustache from the middle out. When you get to the ends, use your thumb and finger to gently twist up. It may take a few passes but you should get that half curl. When you have the moustache styled the way you like, hit it with some cool air to set the wax.
I’m emailing you with a few resources that may be helpful as well. Hopefully this helps you get started at least. Let me know if I can help with anything else.
Take care,
Tim
On February 19, 2021
Ken C. says...
Hi Tim:
I’ve had a “professional” state & beard for years but I’ve been retired for years and got “bored” with it!! Decided a couple of months ago to tackle the handlebar and decided on the Hungarian style. Since you don’t really roll the handlebar upon itself I can’t find any instructions on where to go from here?? I’m not a bulky person (5’7"), just thought the Hungarian style would be unique.
I just found your website & Company and looking forward to doing business with your Company in the near future.
Thanks, in advance, for your help. Any suggestions will be appreciated.
Ken C
Kingman, AZ
2/18/2021
On February 19, 2021
Tim says...
Hi Rod,
Tim here. Thanks for stopping by the blog and for your question. At this stage, I’d recommend leaving all your moustache and focusing on using wax and a comb to train the hairs. If you trim now, you will definitely miss that growth down the road. I know the whiskers can be obnoxious and get in the way but if you use some moustache wax and a comb, it will help teach those whiskers to lay a different way and leave your mouth and nose alone.
Hope that helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.
Take care,
Tim
On February 11, 2021
Rod says...
I have been growing my handlebar about 2 months. I cannot find out if the hair at the corner of my mouth should be trimmed or left to support the curl. I like the bulk it gives to the end, but is difficult to grow. Any thoughts? Thanks for the advice
On February 11, 2021
Tim says...
Hi Steve,
I’m happy to hear all is well with you and your moustache. That is great that the growth is back on course. Enjoy it and stay well.
Take care,
Tim
On August 03, 2020
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim panic over moustache back on course and growing really well maybe a good trim helped to make the hairs stronger the moustache has gone really bushy and I’ve started to use wax again so I’m happy Chap now I hope all ok with you I did try to contact the tombstone moustachary and sent a few contact details but they never got back to me oh well there loose tally ho chat soon.Steve
On August 03, 2020
Tim says...
Hi Steve,
Hope you have been staying well in these challenging times. Sorry to hear the trim didn’t turn out as well as you hoped. It will grow back and you know to stay patient and be selective with who you let touch your moustache :) Thanks for checking in and take care!
Tim
On July 28, 2020
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim just thought I would get in touch had a haircut and moustache trim at my friends barbershop I made a big mistake and asked my friend Nic to trim and thin out my moustache the handlebars have unfortunately lost there length I will let them grow again and not let anyone trim them again I do usually go to a Turkish barber for a cut throat shave once a month and they usually sort out my moustache so I will have to grow them longer hopefully they will grow back stronger chat soon tally ho Steve
On July 28, 2020
Tim says...
Hi Richie,
Tim here. Thank you for checking out the blog! I’m happy to hear you enjoyed the article and that you feel equipped to grow out that handlebar moustache. Stay patient and enjoy the process. We’re here if you need anything at all.
Take care,
Tim
On June 30, 2020
Richie says...
Just read your article. I feel equipped to grow a handlebar moustache. In 3 months time i will let you know the outcome.
On June 30, 2020
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Steve,
Thanks for dropping by to say hi. We here at Can You Handlebar are doing all right. Taking things one day at a time. Thanks for the update on your moustache. Happy to hear it is still growing and getting lots of comments. Hope you are staying healthy and safe.
Take care,
Tim
On May 12, 2020
Steve says...
Hi Tim howz you and the moustache bloggers just thought I would send a quick message my moustache is growing really well and get very bushy and the handlebars are getting really long getting loads of comments in work and from my customers so I will say TATA TTFN Steve
On May 11, 2020
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Cowboy,
Tim here. Thanks so much for checking out the blog! I’m happy to hear you are growing out a handlebar for the first time. Stay patient and let it grow. Please do stay in touch and share updates as you are able. If you have any specific questions, just holler.
Take care,
Tim
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On May 01, 2020
Armando Alejandro says...
GM. First time growing a handlebar. I been off since March 13 & started growing it around 3/24. I haven’t shaved & so far it’s taking shape.
Thanks f oil r your tips. I’ll stay in touch as time goes on.
Stay safe & thanks again.
A.A. (aka- Cowboy)
On May 01, 2020
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Steve,
Thanks for stopping by! It’s been a challenging and interesting time but we are still here. I hope you are staying healthy and well. Yes, this is the perfect time to let that facial hair grow.
Be well.
Tim
On April 20, 2020
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Tim and the moustache bloggers just a quick note to see if everyone is ok during the Covid 19 lockdown and it’s a great opportunity to grow those moustaches big so keep safe from Welsh Moustache Steve
On April 20, 2020
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Steve,
Sounds like you all have a fun 2020 planned. Cheers!
Tim
On January 06, 2020
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi again Tim yep this year is going to be the best for Myself and my Darling Stacey we have loads of. 1940s events to go to and I will be able to be an ambassador for the Handlebar moustache wearing Chaps around Wales so many thanks for all your support during my time as a Handlebar moustache chap all the best and Tally ho.Steve
On January 06, 2020
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Happy New Year! Thanks for the update on those magnetic moustaches. I didn’t see your first message until just now and then I saw the second one as well. Glad it is working out. Keep growing and taking care of that moustache. I hope 2020 is your best year yet!
Tim
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On January 02, 2020
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim I do hope your new year went well and also to all the handlebar bloggers since my last message about a magnet handlebar moustache I’ve commissioned a sign company in Newport to make me up 2 magnetic moustaches 1 in black and 1 in white one for my van and 1 for my black Renault modus and at a brilliant price of £18 for the 2 so I’m a very pleased moustache wearing chap so tally ho and chat soon.Steve (welsh) moustache
On January 02, 2020
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim almost another year of being a proud moustache wearing chap if it’s ok I could I ask a really big favour I’m after a large magnetic moustache for my van I can’t buy one over here and have seen that they are available in the good old American states would it be possible for you to get one for me and send it over and if there is anything I can buy here in the Uk for you I do hope I’m not being cheeky asking all the best Steve moustache at Newport Tescos
On January 02, 2020
Tim Kramer says...
Hey Matt,
Tim here. Thanks for checking out the blog and for the question! Happy to hear you are 9 weeks into that handlebar already. Keep it up. I have not been to Lisbon but will certainly keep Figaros in mind if I ever make it there.
As to the beard or not beard with the handlebar moustache, it is really up to your personal preference. Some guys like to wear just the moustache as they feel it can get lost in the beard. Other guys enjoy having both. Sometimes the shape of your face or how full your beard grows in can help decide as well. I’d say to keep the beard growing along with the handlebar for now and see if you like it. If you do, let it be. If you don’t, you can trim or shave it off and see how you like just the moustache. Thanks again for stopping by the blog. Let me know if there’s anything else I can help with.
Tim
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On December 30, 2019
Matt says...
Hey. I am now week 9 into growing my handlebar. Up to now I’ve kept a bit of a beard as well. I’m unsure what to do now. Should I get rid of the beard completely and just go with the mo? By the way decided to grow a handlebar after visit to be figaros barbershop whilst on a long weekend in Lisbon. The coolest barbers in the world ever!! Thanks Matt
On December 30, 2019
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Scott,
Tim here. Thanks so much for checking out the blog! Happy to hear you’ve been growing that beard and moustache for over a year now. That’s great that the handlebar is taking shape. I’m not sure what waxes you have tried but our Secondary will definitely provide an extra firm hold for at least a whole day. Happy to hear you are getting so many compliments. Thanks again for checking out the blog and just let me know if I can help with anything.
Tim
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On December 04, 2019
Scott Sullivan says...
I’ve been growing my beard and mo since September last year. It wasn’t until June this year my mo started turning into a handlebar. This has progressed in to a handle bar mo. I’ve tried to use strong hold wax, but it’s doesn’t. I’m using pomade. This works very. Now I can’t imaging having a normal mo, as my handlebar mo gets so many compliments.
On December 04, 2019
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Steve,
Thank you so much for stopping by and for the message. A very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours as well. Happy to hear people are still loving that moustache.
Cheers,
Tim
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On November 29, 2019
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Tim just a quick message to wish You and all the handlebar bloggers a merry Christmas and a happy new year my moustache is brilliant and attracting a lot of comments I think I’m the only Tesco Dotcom delivery driver who sports a handlebar moustache. all the best Steve
On November 29, 2019
Tim says...
Hi Steve!
Wow, almost a year already? That is fantastic. I’m happy to have helped and am glad you have stuck with it. Happy to hear you are pleased with the growth and shape. Stick with it!
Tim
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On October 18, 2019
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Tim well it’s coming up to my moustache anniversary it’s been almost a year since I started to grow my moustache so I would like to say thanks for all your help suggestions and support over the last year my moustache has really grown in the last few weeks and is getting the classic shape that I’m after All the best Steve
On October 18, 2019
Tim says...
My pleasure, Steve! Happy growing and let me know if I can help with anything else.
Tim
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On September 11, 2019
Steve Jenkins says...
Thanks Tim I really appreciate your help and brilliant suggestions I will continue to grow and not trim it anymore I have had a few hairs fall out I know you said to expect this to happen All the best Tally ho Steve
On September 11, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Great question! The length, fullness, and shape of your moustache pretty much comes down to your genetics. Every moustache or beard has a terminal length. They only way to really find out what yours is would be to just let it grow without trimming. Kurt Russell’s moustache in Tombstone is a great goal to aim for! Stay patient and see what happens. Cheers!
Tim
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On September 10, 2019
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Tim just a quick question my moustache is growing really well but how long will the handlebars grow my handlebars aren’t growing and I shampoo and put beard oil on I really want the handlebars to be thicker and better shaped I really want my moustache to be more like Kurt Russell’s from tombstone all the best Tally ho Steve
On September 10, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Thanks for the update! I know exactly the style you are referring to and I bet it looks great with the grey hairs in there. Still getting lots of compliments?
Enjoy your day,
Tim
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On August 16, 2019
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim had my first real moustache trim today and I’m very pleased with the result my moustache is just like Val Kilmers moustache from the Western Tombstone And using Bounder wax to I haven’t recoloured the moustache I think it looks better and normal with the grey hairs so moustache is looking brilliant chat soon have a great day all the best Tally ho Steve
On August 16, 2019
Tim Kramer says...
Hi Steve,
Thanks for the update, sir! I wanted to let you know that we now have our products available on Amazon UK :}D
Take care of that stache and have a splendid day.
Tim
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On July 03, 2019
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Moustache Bloggers And Tim it’s a lovely day today in Wales UK and it’s even better having a handlebar moustache everything is spiffing and I’m now trying out a new moustache wax called spitfire and on the lid is a British WW2 pilot so keep your eyes out for the most fabulous moustache wax Tally ho all the best Steve
On July 03, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Tim here. Wow, that sounds like a pretty neat change. I’d love to see pictures of the end result if you have any? I’ve never tried dyeing or darkening my beard or moustache so am quite curious. Happy to hear the curls are getting better and better.
Cheers,
Tim
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On June 14, 2019
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim made a big difference to my moustache today and have darkened it with just for men it has given it more definition and has also given it more body it looks brilliant I’ve used the beard oil on it to it also curls better so very pleased with the outcome it was grey before and is now black with just a hint of grey so Tally ho and pip pip
Chat soon Steve
On June 14, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Mat,
Tim here. Thanks for checking out the blog! That’s a great question.
Yes, you can just stop trimming and let those whiskers grow. Combing daily and using wax to train them to grow the way you want will do the trick. It’s going to take some time so be patient and keep that end goal in mind. Once the stache fills in and you have it trained a bit, start experimenting with styling the ends into those curls. Let me know if I can help with anything else.
Tim
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On June 10, 2019
Mat says...
I already have a full beard and moustache but i keep my moustache trimmed above my lip. Can I just begin to grow it out into a big bushy handlebar? Just stop trimming the bottom and comb it out and wax those little pesky ones up and in until it fills out and catches up?
On June 10, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Great question.
Yeah, I would say the keeping your moustache and skin around your moustache clean and conditioned like that is certainly going to help promote the health of your moustache. It’s funny because the product is called “beard oil” but in fact is just as effective for a moustache. If you’re liking the results, I’d certainly keep up with that routine.
Tim
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On May 29, 2019
Steve jenkins says...
Hi Tim many hope thanks for your great comment just a question I’ve been shampooing my moustache every evening and also putting beard oil on my moustache I’ve found the moustache hair getting stronger and longer is this really helping to keep my moustache healthy the skin around my lips and nose feel soft and doesn’t dry and get itchy I do put Bounder wax on every morning to shape and twirl the ends many thanks Steve
On May 29, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Steve,
Thanks for the update! Happy to hear my advice has still been helpful and that you are still growing that moustache. I will definitely check out Atters Attree’s moustache. Happy growing and please let me know if there’s anything else I can do for you!
Tim
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On May 28, 2019
Steve Jenkins says...
Hi Tim just thought I would send an up date on my moustache really going well and growing still using Bounder it’s a brilliant wax many thanks for your suggestions and help many thanks again.Im trying to grow my moustache just like Atters Attree if you want to check out his most fabulous moustache have a look on U tube all the best Steve
On May 28, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Pete,
Tim here. Thanks for checking out the blog! Great to hear you’re jumping into the training process. Hope it goes well. Remember to stay patient. Let me know if I can help with anything else. Looking forward to hearing about the progress.
Tim
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On May 13, 2019
Pete Barker says...
Ok. Here goes…..I have the moustache and am starting the training process. Heading out today for wax and a comb. Hope I can play catch up and train from here on in…….watch this space!
On May 13, 2019
Tim says...
Hey Michael,
Thanks for checking out the blog! Happy to hear you’re growing the moustache out and styling it. The English Imperial will be a fun style to try for sure.
I understand you are asking about where to stop by moustache at the corner of the mouth. From my experience, the use of combing and wax is preferred to trying to trim it to be the exact style you want.
I’m not as familiar with the Imperial style but I was able to find a pretty helpful article from our friends at Balding Beards. Hope that helps you get started!
Tim
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On March 13, 2019